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"I
have no special talents. I am only passionately
curious."
~Albert
Einstein
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Biography
Michael
Grady was born second of six children in an Irish-catholic
family. His father was an alcoholic and a schizophrenic
with anger and rage issues. Eventually he committed
suicide when Michael was only 13 years old and at that
time, he was in the middle with experimenting with drugs
and alcohol. These years were quite turbulent for him.
Immense amounts of anger and rage, acting out, getting
in trouble with school and at home, many fights and
overdosing on acid. Even at an early age, Michael was
constantly getting into trouble. In grammar school,
he started a riot on the playground and then was banished
from it for the rest of the year.
A
year later, he started a food-fight in the cafeteria
and then was forced to go home to eat lunch. In the
6th grade, he had a teacher that decided to give him
a break. The teacher made a deal with his mother. If
he behaved and did all of his school work Monday - Thursday,
he did not have to go to school on Fridays. This was
the only way that he was able to pass Elementary School.
Junior High school involved a worse attitude, more drug
and alcohol use, which resulted in more fights. He fought
with other students and even teachers. His anger was
at such a high level that it eventually led to being
in trouble with the law and being arrested at age 15
for stealing a couple of school buses with his friend
and "partner in crime".
After
being arrested and feeling like his life was falling
apart, he did something that he never did before, he
prayed. "God if you are real, get me the hell out
of here". The next day his mother and stepfather
approached with an opportunity to move to Maine and
live and work on a farm. He was there in a hurry . He
went from being a hell-raising kid on the streets to
a healthy country boy. After cleaning out his mind,
body and soul, he started asking questions like "if
there is a God, why is there so much evil in the world."
etc. This brought him to deciding to hitchhike around
the continent U.S., Canada and Mexico at the ripe age
of 17. He was seeking life's answers, enjoying traveling
adventures, mountain climbing and meeting all different
kinds of people. He felt as if the people he was meeting
had become more bad, evil and dangerous or more good,
loving and caring.
It
seemed that all of the "good" people that
he had met were Christians. This had gotten his attention
and he started reading the Bible. He even began talking
to God, to whom which he had many issues with. This
was a stepping stone in the process of Michael becoming
a Christian.
After
becoming a Christian and going to A Bible College, he
started out with expectations of living in a community
of people who loved and forgave each other. This expectation
was popped like a balloon after experiencing many things
as a Christian, such as a church splits with corruption
by leaders and high levels of hypocrisy. Another disappointment
was the failure in his marriage, followed by a long
custody battle for his only son. All illusions of a
Christian community with love and forgiveness seemed
lost to him.
Until
he took a 4-day retreat/workshop called Momentous, where
he met Christian and non-Christians working through
troubling situations and learning to forgive each other
and eventually love each other in a safe environment.
This was Michael's first exposure to Christian Life
Coaching or Transformational Trainings or what you would
call practical trainings in living Biblical principles
in a real way. This process also got him into diving
into forgiveness in a way that he was responsible to
live it out everyday even if no one around him did.
He knew his power source was from above and would not
fail him.
Michael's
been involved with Transformational Trainings and Life
Coaching for about 15 years and has been studying the
subject of forgiveness since 1988.
Everyone
seems to have weaknesses and hardships in life. Michael's
weakness was over reacting, being out of control with
his anger or acting out in different ways when he was
offended or falsely accused.
Many
situations came up that he wanted to run away from and
he did, but when it came to almost loosing his son,
he made a stand and walked through all of the hard stuff
-being falsely accused, dealing with his emotions, being
responsible for his part, working on his anger and walking
through difficult situations instead of running away
from them.
Learning to be responsible, to forgive no matter what
anyone says or does to him.
"THATS FREEDOM"
One day at a time.
What
course have you planned for your life? Let's
take that journey together. Learn
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me at 860-878-9125 or email me at GradyoGrady12@charter.net
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